You have the ability and the capacity to win. Victory is something that you can experience daily with the right strategy.
If you're finding yourself constantly losing at things that you truly want to succeed with, don't give up. Just because it's difficult doesn't mean it's impossible. There may just be a need for small adjustments to your game plan and those adjustments can align you with success.
Here's a few adjustments that you can make to help position you for victory:
1. Implement "growth thinking" into your mindset
When you realize that your past doesn't have to equal your future...that's the first step to winning in your life. When you convince yourself that tomorrow can, and will, be better than today...you're on your way to building a greater life for yourself.
"Growth Thinking" is when you begin to distort your reality with a greater vision of who you are and what you can achieve.
Find a way to suspend your current reality and visualize greater possibilities. Look beyond today and imagine the success that you can experience. Just because "things" have "always been this way" doesn't mean that they have to always stay that way.
2. Engineer success into every action you take and every decision you make
With everything that you do...success should be the aim.
Eliminate the things in your life that are not creating and building your success.
If you truly want to start winning, you have operate with successful intentions. Every effort should be fueled with the passion to gain the victory in your life. Success should be the only option for everything that you do and every decision that you make should be designed to build on your success.
3. Focus on winning by putting daily points on the board of your life
In sports, one possession doesn't win an entire game. It's the accumulation of possessions that determines the outcome of the game. The winner of the competition is decided by how the athlete and/or the team performs during the majority of possessions.
When it comes to your success, focus on putting points on the board daily. Every day is an opportunity for you to score with success, so make the best of every day.
Break your goal down into steps and make a daily effort to shorten the distance between where you are now and where you seek to be.
The ball is on your court, take advantage of your opportunity. The day is your's...score with success. Your dream may not come together all in one day, but keep scoring with success daily and one day it'll all come together.